tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post4077937174604451388..comments2023-10-23T07:31:42.730-07:00Comments on What I'm Sayin...: To My Not-So-Married-at-the-Moment Friend, With LoveCynica Sarcastamoshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16083960071496699160noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-44062033359110145492009-11-19T12:37:21.601-08:002009-11-19T12:37:21.601-08:00KATHRYN - I think you've nailed it!
Oh well. ...KATHRYN - I think you've nailed it! <br />Oh well. The upside here is that when I offer (or shove down a throat) unsolicited (the truth hurts) advice to this friend, it seems that somebody's phone battery (hers) is gonna die, and that's a sure way to get me off the phone if needed. (but I did not just say that...)Cynica Sarcastamoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083960071496699160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-80383114886883886542009-11-17T21:09:05.282-08:002009-11-17T21:09:05.282-08:00Um. Ya think maybe you just got "disconnected...Um. Ya think maybe you just got "disconnected"???<br /><br />Like, maybe back when you tried to talk some sense into her??<br /><br />My God....she is SO not ready to hear the truth!<br /><br />I hope the next time you two speak, it's about someone (anyone!) else.kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-73079462973287787172009-11-14T12:27:28.564-08:002009-11-14T12:27:28.564-08:00MARGO - Thank you! Oh, I know, right? He is who he...MARGO - Thank you! Oh, I know, right? He is who he is and she'll not change that, so she can either fuss with that baby or hand it back to it's mom. <br />Glad you added your POV!Cynica Sarcastamoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083960071496699160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-28404510156295842722009-11-14T04:43:46.146-08:002009-11-14T04:43:46.146-08:00I hope you hear from her soon. I feel like whackin...I hope you hear from her soon. I feel like whacking atty upside the head. Your friend shouldn't value herself like a merry maid. That the guy freaks every time she tries to leave, screams "hopeless codependent and mama's boy." I think it's great you spoke the truth to her and that nerve you hit in her, needed it :)Margohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15813140073356995390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-87783055738548981602009-11-13T16:14:50.039-08:002009-11-13T16:14:50.039-08:00FIERCE - LOL! They do indeed but then you'd ha...FIERCE - LOL! They do indeed but then you'd have to go to jail (where you could really learn to sucker punch) I will post 'the rest of the story' soon. <br />Thank you for my award! How cool is this! I'll try to make you proud but, really, don't count on it. I never do.<br /><br />MARK - Co-eds? Duh - gay guys AND straight guys (heehee yourself!) And don't be so sure! I think I can sell her on that whole 'violation' idea. (oops, a pun)<br /><br />SPOT - I'm glad you made it to the party - late or not! (Did ya bring a bottle?)<br />I know. It's all pretty pathetic, but what are ya gonna do? She'll step away from the ridiculousness when it starts to cause a rash. For now - just between us, I think it's somewhat entertaining for her. Where there is turmoil, there is a pulse, after all.Cynica Sarcastamoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083960071496699160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-91642313354262340162009-11-13T14:34:15.674-08:002009-11-13T14:34:15.674-08:00Okay, so I know I'm like really late to this p...Okay, so I know I'm like really late to this party but seriously, buy her the book already. This guy has more lines then AT&T. Ridiculous that she's put up with it for so long!! And speaking from a friend's experience...if he's not putting out that often, only engages in PDA in front of others, and you aren't the top priority. Could be your just a cover. Just because he has kids doesn't mean he didn't switch teams somewhere along the way. It happens.<br /><br />♥Spot<br /><br />PS-Someday she will value your honesty, as long as you don't say I told you so. And yet it's so tempting!Spothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12761441168024967277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-45222618705540692752009-11-13T12:33:56.267-08:002009-11-13T12:33:56.267-08:00Support groups? Hmm wonder if they are co-ed? HEE ...Support groups? Hmm wonder if they are co-ed? HEE HEE. Your friend wouldn't want me to use my imagination regarding her sex life (giggity) she would feel violated. (giggity giggity)Mark Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08908489459365032010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-63524372871142006492009-11-12T16:16:49.462-08:002009-11-12T16:16:49.462-08:00'sistah-girls' sometimes make you feel lik...'sistah-girls' sometimes make you feel like sucker-punching them! do let us know what happens, I'll remind you in 2 years<br /><br />P.S there's an award for you over at mine<br />xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-27041152305323475252009-11-12T15:23:50.522-08:002009-11-12T15:23:50.522-08:00Everybody: I know, right?! :P
DANI- It's nice...Everybody: I know, right?! :P<br /><br />DANI- It's nice to know I'm not alone! Like you and your GF, this one and I have history so I wasn't at all surprised when she called back the next day to tell me that her phone had died. <br />Um hmmm. what-EVer!<br /><br />MARK! - There are support groups, you know. <br />Actually, I could give you the juicy details ... but that would be inappropriate. So use your twisted imagination - or hit 'play'. :) hugs!<br /><br />JUDGE FUDGE - LOL! You're right, you're right, and you're right. She knows this, but as long as she 'likes him', anything I say will make her phone die.<br />Thanks for sharing your POV!Cynica Sarcastamoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16083960071496699160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-79744601596946588352009-11-11T13:08:57.712-08:002009-11-11T13:08:57.712-08:00Here's a few words from a guy's perspectiv...Here's a few words from a guy's perspective.<br /><br />First of all, we forget our wallets about as often as we forget our penises. I can count on 1 finger the times I've gone somewhere expecting to spend money only to realize I forgot my wallet. If he's using that excuse, then he just doesn't want to spend his money. What guy doesn't want to spend money on the woman he cares about? Especially if he has the money to spend!<br /><br />The thing about parading her around in front of his friends caught my attention too. Maybe he's just using her as a prop to show off to his lawyer buddies. It's a lot easier than "going stag" to get-togethers and explaining to everyone why he's single.<br /><br />She should kick him to the curb and move on.Judge Fudgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06731787165566569088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-83878075960668356402009-11-11T11:12:50.653-08:002009-11-11T11:12:50.653-08:00ok so I'm intrigued by the "anything sexu...ok so I'm intrigued by the "anything sexual" That pretty much has been my focus on this post. Any chance you could get a detailed report when she calls you back? It might help me with my diagnosis of the problem. Not really, it would just be cool to hear. I'm reminded of a line from one of the greatest movies of all time. "Chicks cannot hold they smoke!" (Anthony Michael Hall in Weird Science) It's a known fact that when you let the smoke out of stuff, it quits working right. Maybe she let her smoke out so she has lost her mind? My computer let it's smoke out once...never worked again. On the other hand, Atty seems to be blowing quite a bit of smoke up her ass trying to replace what has been lost. Hmm a difficult case indeed Mr. Watson. I feel that the sexual stuff in great detail would be most helpful. Please send immediately.Mark Pricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08908489459365032010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891179116882783234.post-22390454047945256842009-11-11T05:24:54.967-08:002009-11-11T05:24:54.967-08:00OMG, OMG, OMG!!! She HUNG UP ON YOU? Holy hell, gi...OMG, OMG, OMG!!! She HUNG UP ON YOU? Holy hell, girl. Not cool.<br /><br />Wowzers. My "sistah-girl" has pulled some crap on me over the years, but she's never hung up on me .. and I had a conversation not entirely unlike this one with her when the father of her children was leaving her for another woman. She cried. She didn't voluntarily talk to me for a while ... but she was never so disrespectful. Eeesh.<br /><br />Poor you. <br /><br />My girl came around and now 7 years later thanks me regularily for being so honest.<br /><br />I hope she calls to mend the bridge. I'm sure she will when she cools her heels.Danica-Dragonflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13211849231665337448noreply@blogger.com